WildKind Women began with a conversation between two sisters. We were talking about our bodies, our experiences, our culture. 

As Tongan and Māori women, we grew up with many of the same messages passed down through generations: that conversations about sex, pleasure, our changing bodies and women’s health were private, uncomfortable, or not spoken about at all.

As we moved through our own midlife changes and started seeking a deeper understanding of our bodies, we realised something powerful: we are not alone. So many women are navigating the same questions, the same changes and the same search for understanding - often without a safe space to ask, learn and connect.

We saw a gap. Not just in information, but in representation, cultural understanding and honest conversations about the experiences that shape us.

So we decided to create the space we wished existed.

WildKind Women is where evidence meets lived experience. A place where culture is honoured, conversations about intimacy and pleasure are welcomed, and women can explore their bodies, identity and wellbeing without shame.

But this movement is not only for us.

It’s for the generations coming after us - our daughters, our nieces, and the women who deserve to grow up knowing their bodies are not something to hide or fear.

Together, we can challenge the patterns passed down to us, create safer conversations and empower women to feel confident, connected and informed through every stage of their journey.

WildKind Women is our love letter to midlife women of colour – and an invitation to remember that your story, your pleasure and your body have always mattered.